I am guessing I have gone for the most popular answer, love ! However, I do not mean love for any one person, although it does include that. I mean love as a concept love for people, love for animals, love for plants, love for the earth, love for the universe. Love is part of me. Some may say it is God given. If people want to believe that then that’s fine, I will not argue, I just know, I have love, but I do not believe in any deity.
to me that makes me stronger. I do not need to be told what is right and wrong, I just know in my heart.. To hurt someone, is wrong, no matter what the excuse.
If someone told me to hurt a man because he does not share your beliefs I would refuse, my own moral compass would tell me to.
I do not need the threat of Hell, nor the promise of Heaven, I believe when I am dead that is the end, that is what makes life precious.
If I am wrong, and punished for my non-belief then so be it, but there are believers who have committed atrocities in the name of their belief, what of them?

Love is the master.

  Before I found love I was stranded and lost, then I saw the waters I had to cross.

   I was misled and misguided until I received that letter, from a Mr Cancer he said you are old and wise you should know better.

    Now love is my life, love is my soul I have crossed the river, I have paid the toll. 

   I stood on the hill the sun pouring down, I saw love standing there, in her golden gown.

   Now love is my mistress love is my queen, love is the cure for the evil we’ve seen.

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It’s not that I was a bad person before my cancer, I was just ignorant as to what is needed in our world, and that is just understanding and love.

All words Meadowhead Bard.